š Rider Reset Series. Part 2 - "Know Yourself ā Ride Your Own Race."
- Vanessa Davison
- Jun 17
- 4 min read
Updated: Jun 26
The power of self-awareness, realistic goals, and staying focused on your own path
In motocross, itās easy to look sideways. At the start gate. In the pits. On the leaderboard. You see riders who are faster, smoother, braver. You wonder, āAm I behind?ā But hereās the truth: Youāre not behind. Youāre on your own path.
Motocross is personal. Everyone comes into the sport with different experience, strengths, fears, and goals. So, the most important thing you can do as a rider is this:
šĀ Know yourself ā and race your own race.
š§Ā Why Self-Awareness Matters
Being a strong rider doesnāt start with speed. It starts with clarity.
What are you already good at?
What do you struggle with?
Whatās getting in your head before the gate drops?
Where are you in your development ā not where someone else is?
Riders who know their strengths, their style, and their sticking points are the ones who improve faster. Why? Because theyāre not chasing someone elseās highlight reel ā theyāre building on their own foundations.
You donāt have to be the fastest right now. You just have to be honestĀ with where you're at ā and be willing to grow from there.
šÆĀ Stretch Goals vs. Stress Goals
Not all goals are created equal. Some goals help you level up. Others just leave you feeling defeated.
At R31, we talk about two types:
š¢Ā Stretch GoalsĀ ā These push you just enough to improve. They're based on where youāreĀ at right now. Theyāre measurable, realistic, and personal.ā”Ā āI want to improve my corner speed by picking one spot to commit to every lap.ā ā”Ā āMy goal is to stay calm and ride smart through the whole first lap.ā
š“Ā Stress GoalsĀ ā These are vague, often based on others, and hard to measure. They create pressure without purpose.ā”Ā āI want to win this weekend.āā”Ā āI need to be faster than those two riders in my class.ā
The problem with stress goals? Even when you improve, it might still feelĀ like you failed. Thatās a fast track to frustration.
Instead, work with goals that build belief, not burnout.
š Reflect, Donāt Compare
Instead of asking:ā āWhy canāt I ride like them?ā Try asking:ā āWhatās one thing I want to improve from last round?ā
Progress isnāt always something youāll see on a results sheet. It might look like:
⢠Hitting that jump youāve been avoiding
⢠Holding your line under pressure
⢠Recovering from a mistake without giving up
These are big wins ā even if no one else notices.
After each ride, take a moment to reflect:
⢠What felt better than last time?
⢠What threw you off?
⢠Whatās something I want to try again ā or try differently?
Do that consistently, and youāll start building a plan that works for you.
And hey ā if you doĀ catch yourself asking āWhy canāt I ride like them?ā Flip it. Instead, ask: āWhat can I learn ā and whatās one thing I can do better next time?ā
š§ Ā Know What You Need to Succeed
Not every rider needs the same things to perform well.Some need music. Others need silence. Some need time alone. Others need to talk it out.
Think about what helps you feel confident and focused:
Do you ride better when you visualise the track before heading out?
Do you need reminders to breathe and stay calm on the start line?
Does writing down a goal before each moto help you stay clear-headed?
The more you understand how youĀ work, the more in control youāll feel ā no matter what the competition is doing.
šĀ Your Turn: Reflect and ResetĀ Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā
Letās take it back to you.
ā Ā Whatās one area of your riding youāre proud of right now?
ā Ā Whatās a skill or habit you want to develop next?
ā Ā What kind of goals help you stay focused without feeling overwhelmed?
ā Ā Are you chasing growth ā or just chasing others?
Take a moment this week to think honestly about where youāre at ā not with judgement, but with purpose. Then write your next goal. Make it yours.
Because this sport isnāt about who you beat ā Itās about who you become.
Remember- Ride Ready- Race Ready!
Why not check out our website (www.r31mx-adventure.com.au) for more information like this? Become an R31 Club Member and see what itās all about. Join the R31 Pit CrewĀ and get your chance to be part of the Think TankĀ ā a space to dive into discussions like these with like-minded people who are chasing their goals, just like you.
We also host monthly Pit Stop Meet Ups (included as part of the Pit Crew Pass) ā our live online sessions where riders and families can come together to chat, share insights, ask questions, and reflect in real time. Itās a great way to stay connected, stay motivated, and be part of a positive, supportive riding community ā no matter where you are.
Sharing ideas, learning from others, and belonging to a strong community all help progress a rider ā or a parent supporting a rider ā by building confidence, connection, and the momentum to keep improving.
š Australian Resources Referenced
Sport Australia Mental Fitness Framework
AIS Mental Health in Sport Guidelines
Motorcycling Australia Rider Pathways
Play by the Rules Coaching Support Tools
Absolutely ā setting reasonable and achievable goalsĀ is key to building confidence, momentum, and real progress.